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Hello friends,
After a long time, I wanted to open the topic again. In 2015, I started this forum to come to Germany and to gather information about Germany.
I got married in July 2015 and came to Germany in August. I did not have a preliminary preparation about Germany, except for my accelerated A1 German. In the 5 years that passed, (actually 4 years have passed in Germany)As soon as I arrived at the first year of the session, I moved from Germany and lived with my wife in another European country for 1 year.
Then I returned to Germany and worked in the same company for 3 years. I did not attend any language courses in Germany during this time. I didn't even attend an integration course. These carriers in both German and to work in Germany in late ögrendim.türkiye not even in front of the factory I work three shifts day and night busily. I decided to develop my name and develop myself, as I worked for 3 year with periodical company called Leih firm, 1 year with periodical vertebra, 1 year with contract, and 1 year with indefinite vertrag, and the conditions did not improve with my own will. I had reached the highest point and money I could reach in that firm, but that did not satisfy me.
During the 3 years that I worked in the company, I also acted as a private firm and I also did Online jobs, and for this, I came across the commercial court for 3 times because of our lack of German paper shovel laws. (because the opponent who found an open in my online store filed a lawsuit against me) Then I won these cases and even received compensation.
The jackals in front of me thought they could send me, I spent 5.000 Euros in court proceedings but I got back 8000 Euros.
I have now started my journey to Umschulung, a professional education. In order to focus on my profession and avoid problems with the state, I froze its activities in my company.There were many changes in my private life. Thank God I became a father in this country, but I also lost my father. So much has come to our press. There are no people who came to Germany later and did not have adventures in the press. This country makes it really human. If you are lucky away from your family and your loved ones and you are fighting well, you will struggle. No language, no house, no car, no job, no friend, you have to win them all.
Let those who come to Germany know that you are always alone here. I hope your work will be well done and you will be your best friend. You will not be able to deal with Turks who were born and raised here. My only advice to you is to adapt for 2-3 months as soon as you arrive, and if you do not say good and bad, you should enter and work. I did not go to a course or something, and when I started I had a zero German and I was negotiating with the guys. If you are dealing with Germans in the company you work with, your German is developing very fast. I'm entering my teacher to b1 exam course you learned from me, you never go to Turkey 3 years of German in German impossible had said that while neither Turkey nor bi course I took was based here only to study and practice.
Velhasil kalam life is both overwhelming and brings new adventures to you. This place teaches people very well what they know and what they cost. Be confident, do not be grateful to anyone. In order not to be alone, avoid avoiding friendships in Germany with types that live like parasites. Look at your bread, learning your language and the peace of your home, the rest is a big lie. Of course, don't worry, your friends will come and find you if you are right.
LEARN THE GERMAN AS YOU HAVE TO LEARN THE MOST IMPORTANT !! German will open doors to you that are not urgent. Although it is very difficult, practice your ear and brain by repeating it every day, using youtube and watching German channels every day. If you don't speak German, believe me, you will be afraid of opening the phones that came to me. Maybe a big opportunity will come before you, but you will not understand. Get rid of money or something, focus on German only for 2-3 years. The fastest way to do this is by working in a workplace and crossing the Germans.I just wanted to make a little share. Cheers to all of you. May Allah compare everyone with the good.
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When I read this, my current efforts and my destroyed life came to my mind again.
I married and loved my wife (he was a Turk in Germany) I am a woman I waited 8 months for a visa I am a person with knowledge of German from the past to the present I always had my German language but I had to improve it I brought kdr to the b2 level
Since I entered the same house with her husband, I could not agree, she recorded my conversations with my family or friends on an audio device, listened to my criticisms against her many times and held a grudge against me.
His expectation during the marriage is that we were married for 2 months in the same house.
There was no development about my life, on the contrary, I took it back, it wasn't enough, when I went to the foreigners officer I sought my rights, I was insulted by that person who will be called mother-in-law.
And the result will be deceived by my wife and my session will be sent, I can't pay the penalty, and he sent me to Turkey saying that your visa is over.
We're getting divorced right now, she even found someone else, I think they found someone hurriedly for consolation.
but my life fell apart i am in the middle of my life neither young nor old but i feel ruined i reset everything
I didn't get my clothes or diplomas when I came to Turkey, they didn't give them back to me, the situation is still the same.
i have made numerous ausbildung applications to go back to germany and never got any positive feedback
I'm so hopeless, I wanted to live in Germany, have some order, and most importantly, not have a lonely life, but none of that happened... unfortunately, this story has an unhappy ending.Hello,
As a woman, I would like to say a few words about you, as I could not remain indifferent to what you wrote.
Most women in your situation suffer greatly, either because they do not know their rights or because they do not have a good command of German. However, let alone physical violence, even verbal violence has a sanction. It all comes down to being able to master the language and seek your rights through legal means.
That's why I'm calling out to all my fellow countrymen who came here by marriage;
Before you get married, if you can, come to your spouse with a tourist visa. See the man you will marry in the country where he lives, spend some time together, observe. Then enter the marriage path.
If you do not have the opportunity to come here before marriage, decide to come here after knowing your spouse candidate well. Because on your trip to Germany, your spouse will be your friend, your confidant, your everything. No matter what you do when you first come, add your night to your day and improve your German. But always remember that you are the lady of your house, the queen of your house, and do not let it be forgotten. Wrap it up when appropriate, even open baklava when appropriate. Because the way to a man's heart is through food. The stronger your relationship with your spouse, the more it will reflect on your entire life here. So don't make small issues like cooking or housework a problem. Marriage is an art. It takes a lot of dedication and patience. With the awareness of this, step on this path.
It is always useful to be practical and solution-oriented.
At first, you can improve your language in your spare time while you take care of full-time housework. For example, I translated my own recipes into German.
Because your tongue will be the only thing that will keep you alive here. When you speak German, everyone's respect for you and even their attitude will change, thanks to your German, you will be able to find a job and do all your work yourself.
Be sure to attend a language and integration course. In this way, and of course with your own efforts, language development will accelerate and you will adapt to society very quickly.
And of course, get into business as soon as possible.
Stand tall on your own feet!!!And as for you Reina 86,
First of all, I would like to convey my deepest condolences for the unfortunate events you have experienced. There are always ups and downs in life. You may be feeling helpless in a very hopeless situation right now. But be sure
After every hardship comes ease. As long as you keep your heart open and hug life tightly.
Always leave the past in the past and don't even let anyone talk about it. Open a brand new page for yourself. Focus on yourself and your loved ones! First of all, I don't know what your profession is or what profession you have done before, but I suggest you find a job in Turkey with your German language and work immediately. Working in such situations gives a person great strength.
Then you make future plans with pros and cons.
Good luck and happiness in your new life.
Remember, every born day is a new hope 🍀🍀🍀
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